He wanted our kids exposed to Christianity for intellectual reasons and likes the community. She will try to convert you. That's a really sad story. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. I married a recent convert girl в she may as well have been a nonmember в and less than a year later we got an annulment. We decided early on that having only one working parent was critical -- I am always the one that flexes to his schedule like it or notand staying home with our child enables me to do that. I do feel some of the pressure lifting off me in that I can start doing things for myself. I couldn't stop thinking about it all day after reading it. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. If you're just shaken up and in need of a few stitches and work is busy, that means instead of rushing to your side immediately I might wait until my shift ends before showing up with takeout and flowers to look after you.
I can totally understand. But I'm glad for all the advice I read on this blog. She was so sad over what she sacrificed it just haunted everyone on Reddit. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. I just graduated college and my boyfriend has one more year. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. After a certain point "support" stops being supportive and turns into enabling - enabling of his depression, his anxiety, his reluctance to reflect deeply on who he is and what he wants out of life, and worst of all, my "support" ensures his continuation into a career that will not ultimately make him or me happy. Or the links, in that first vision one.
I must admit that this life comes with a lot of surprises. And if you can make it to the Tree of Life and still be with your partner, guess what. She's willing to talk about anything I find directly on LDS. I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. I've been married over 4 years to a 1st year GI fellow. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. This makes them overwhelmingly successful wives and mothers. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr.