He has never said a disparaging word about his mother. See where it goes. Now, he has just started a new training in a new country and i am so lonely here. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?.
But is it the path that will make you the happiest. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. This is my own personal opinion. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back. We see each other he still makes time for me, but i cant really tolerate him insulting me when hes angry for small reasons. It is so hard, so sad and so lonely. He has lived alone forever and now we are living together, engaged, and of course, I have moved to another state to be with him.
You will be able to best gauge where her beliefs stand in regards to the church if you listen to how she describes her mission. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. It really can be that simple. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. I know this post is kind of all over the place but I had to get it out I Here's to hoping that this coming weekend he isn't on call, doesn't have to fill in, doesn't have a million charts to finish, and doesn't have any crazy medical emergencies!!. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically. So I came across this blog and I was hoping you ladies could give me some advice. Never mind the paycheck because I even earn more than him.
And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself.