Cookies make wikiHow better. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. Amasa enjoys art, music, and traveling. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. Don't have any support as family is too far away and we're always on the move. But she probably is more in love with the idea of you, than with you. We all wondered why should would go against such a blessing. I hated it so much, in fact, that I ran off to China.
One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. I think you should start by having some very honest conversations. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. I am deeply hurt and am a very lonely doctor's wife. On the other hand lol handshe may fall into tearing guilt and leave you immediately.
I believe rules are to be obeyed. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. He admitted then that there had been another short sexual liaison with a nurse prior to that. I think you are all lucky to have such successful husbands, and I think in any marriage it is important to keep your own identity especially when you have children. Mormonism isn't a free ticket to heaven.
Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. I am really in love with him. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance.